Perspective

The other night, I was jarred awake in the wee hours of the morning by thunder and lightning as a storm passed through. I couldn’t help but smile when I remembered something a young mom posted on social media recently and I want to share it with you.

She wrote that her six-year-old son had just started first grade and she got a call from the school that they were going to let students go home early due to a storm moving into the area. She rushed to the school to pick up her son, with lightning flashing every few minutes. She imagined all the way how frightened her son must be. When she pulled up in front of the school, she saw her son waiting in the doorway with a big smile. He saw her car and ran to her with his smile getting bigger with each flash of lightning, He hopped in the car with a cheerful, “Hi Mom!” Confused, she asked him why he was smiling? This was his reply, “God is taking my picture and i want to look my best for Him.”

This old man has been taught a valuable lesson by that young boy. It is not our environment or temporary situations that shape our attitude. It is our attitude and our responses that shape our environment and situations.

Family Resemblance

It has been said that children bear a resemblance to a parent. My brother resembled our mom’s family while I resemble our father. But family resemblance isn’t just genetic. I have noticed that couples married for a long time start to look alike. If that is true, I hope I changed over our years together, because she was already beautiful when we wed. I think it is our actions and our words that identify us to those closest to us.

Jesus said it is our love for each other that will show the world we are His follower. When we believe in and follow Jesus, His Spirit takes residence in our heart, producing fruit in us that is visible to the world. For 17 years,until I retired, I was the corporate trainer for a large family owned pest control company with five offices in the Chicago area, The general manager told me I got that position because I had more patience than anyone in the company, especially him. What he actually saw was that fruit of God’s Spirit growing in me.

Do our actions and words match our profession of faith and fruit of the Spirit within us? I”m reminded of the story of a woman who completely lost her temper in traffic. She screamed obscenities  at other drivers with vulgar hand gestures. A cop hit his lights and pulled her over.He ordered her out of the car, put her in hand cuffs and into the back of his squad car with her protesting all the way.  He explained to her that she was not under arrest, just in temporary custody for her safety and his while he investigated, He radioed the station with the vehicle serial number, licence plate and her driver licence information. When everything matched, he released her and apologized. “The first thing I saw when I got behind you were the signs ‘Follow Me To Church’ and ‘Jesus Is King’. Then I heard your profanity and naturally thought the car had been stolen.”

May our family resemblance as a son or daughter of God through Jesus Christ and His Holy Spirit always be evident to everyone around us.

The New Commandment

For the last 8 years, I have written more about love than any other topic, because without love there would be no Christian life for me to write about. God loved us long before you and I were lovable, (John 3:16) Jesus didn’t leave heaven and become a man to replace the laws given to Moses. He expanded them to apply not just to our actions, but to our thoughts and feelings as well. When Jesus was asked which commandment was most important Jesus said there are two of equal importance, first love the Lord your God with all of your mind, heart and soul and then love your neighbor as yourself. All of the other laws are built on those two. Later in His ministry, he told his followers, including you and me, “I give you a new commandment that you should love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know you are my disciples, that you have love for one another.” (John 13:34-35)

Years ago, I remember a fad that had WWJD everywhere asking What Would Jesus Do? Christians used that question to keep their decisions Christ-like, while those without a personal relationship with Jesus used it to judge imperfect Christians. To find the answer to that question, simply read the account of what Jesus actually did. Jesus died in our place as a penalty for our sins; that is love! He was stripped naked,His feet and hands were nailed to a wooden cross and then the cross was raised so he was exposed to the crowd, and his entire weight was resting on those nail wounds. He looked at the crowd who had demanded His execution and the Roman soldiers who were carrying it out and He prayed,”Father forgive them for they know not what they do.” That is pure LOVE!!! It wasn’t the nails that held Jesus on the cross that day. It was His love for you and me that kept Him there until it was finished.

Stand Still

I’m posting this on Monday evening after several days to calm my heart and mind of any lingering worry or fear about what my next storm will be (and you can be sure there will be one). If you have been reading this bog for a while, you know how Christian song lyrics touch me sometimes. I went to a You-tube  play list to prepare my mind and heart for online worship. Sunday morning  The second song was a surprise, but it was definitely a message to me about the storms of last week and not to worry about any storm. He’s got me!

“When the storm is all around you and you don’t know what to do, stand still and let God move. Standing still is hard to do. But even though it seems you’re at the end of your road, God will make a way for you. Just stand still and let God move.”

It has taken me years to learn three simple steps when going through a storm with my Lord. 1. Believe and pray. 2. Trust and obey. 3. Stay out of God’s way.

 

A Week Of Storms

In every Christian life there will be storms to distract us from service for God. He will go through them with us and bring us through safely. I must be getting on Satan’s last nerve because I have faced three storms in just four days this week.

After breakfast on Monday, my care giving angel, Alisha, was helping clean me up and saw swelling and discoloration below my left knee. We contacted my VA  nurse and were told to call 911 immediately and have ER do an ultrasound to check for a blood clot. After three hours on a gurney in ER, I finally got the ultrasound done and an hour later a doctor told me it isn’t a blood clot, gave me an antibiotic and sent me back home. God was with me and brought me through that storm safely.

By Tuesday morning, I was hungry and feeling pretty good about things. I had a big breakfast and a bowl of canned chili-mac for lunch. Shortly after my care giver left at noon, I began to cramp then experienced wave after wave of diarrhea and vomiting until there was nothing left in me. I’ve only had food poisoning once 30 years ago, but I recognized immediately that there was something in the chili my body did not want to deal with. By Wednesday morning, I was empty and weak but not sure if my body was ready to handle food, so I tried a very light breakfast and lunch. When that went well, I had more for dinner and by Thursday morning I was back to normal and praising God for taking me safely through that second storm.

I had a new care giver Thursday morning. I guided her through the meals and other chores, getting to know her in the process. By the time she left at noon I was exhausted. I reclined my power chair for a nap. I no sooner dozed off when the phone rang. By the time I got my chair in an upright position, it had stopped, so I headed to the living room to see who called. I got within about four feet from the phone when my chair flashed a warning and stopped dead. I had been distracted by everything that I had let the battery in my chair get down to 15%. Panic began to build. When you can’t walk and your chair can’t roll, you are dead in the water like a sail boat without wind. I said a prayer, turned on the power and moved a few inches toward the phone before it would stop again. I kept repeating that process until I could reach the phone. I called my brother in Christ, who lives in my area. He said he would stop by with a long power cord. It appeared that God brought me through the third storm of the week. While praising God, the Holy Spirit began to prompt me to do something strange. He wanted me to try to back the chair. Now normally, it takes more power to back it than move forward, but I know to always trust and obey. I turned the power on one more time and pulled back on the joy-stick. The chair rolled steadily back across the living room carpet and into the kitchen where it finally came to rest right next to its charger. Just God’s way of saying, “A little icing on the cake for you, my child.”

I’m posting this Saturday evening with one more prayer of thanks that this week is finally coming to an end.